Reflections from a Pioneer
Dear Hill-Murray Community,
At each all-school Mass, a senior has the opportunity to give a “To Be A Pioneer” speech. For my message this week, I would like to share Abby Martinez’s speech following a recent all-school Mass with you. Abby joined us in 9th grade, and I have watched her grow over the past four years. As our seniors have been completing college applications and focused on planning their post-secondary journeys, it is important to pause and reflect on how far they have each come during their time at Hill-Murray.
As a reminder, don’t forget to join us on Wednesday, November 20th, at 6:00 PM for a session with Dr. Cindra Kamphoff, executive coach and CEO of the Mentally Strong Institute. This session is open to all parents and community members. You can click here to register or to learn more.
Sincerely,
Melissa Dan
Hill-Murray School President
Good morning, everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Abby Martinez! I want you to take a moment and think back to a time when you faced a new beginning — maybe it was a new school, joining a new team, or even a new friendship. I remember my new beginning vividly: the first day of freshman year, stepping into the hallways of Hill-Murray as a nervous freshman – my heart racing with a mix of anxiety and excitement. Little did I know that those hallways would become a place of comfort, growth, and resilience – where my friendships were created. Today, I’m here to share how this incredible community has shaped me and my remarkable journey at Hill-Murray.
I remember the day when my parents told me that I would be transferring to a private Catholic school. My parents made the decision, knowing this would be the best path for my academic success. To be honest, I wasn’t exactly excited about the news. I had grown comfortable attending public schools my whole life, and the thought of leaving my friends and connections behind was unsettling. It felt as if my voice wasn’t part of the decision, and I was anxious about the prospect of building new friendships. For someone like me, who is big on social interactions, it was still tough for me to agree with this decision.
When the first day of freshman year came, I remember stepping into the hallways of Hill-Murray for the very first time. As a new student at Hill, I was worried about how I would fit in, adapting to the new faces and unfamiliar halls. Everything felt so different from what I had known from my previous school. So, to overcome this fear of anxiety, I joined the Hill-Murray Girls Soccer Program. Joining the team allowed me to decompress myself with a sport I love, but it also unexpectedly built a supportive foundation for my next four years. As someone who previously did not enjoy school, I soon realized Hill-Murray was not just another school – it was a community where I could genuinely belong, thrive, and feel supported by my teachers. This foundation was created by the friendships I started to build, filling me with hope and excitement for years to come. Soon, it became obvious that I didn’t have to worry about fitting in because being a PIONEER means feeling welcomed and belonging in the community.
After my first day of school, I remember getting picked up by my mom after soccer practice. She asked about my day, and I shared my nerves and the joy I felt being part of the Hill-Murray community. I could see the surprise in her eyes when I said, “Mom, it was the best first day ever!”
As I entered my sophomore year, I encountered a host of challenges that tested my resilience. Struggling academically and facing a setback in biology took a toll on my confidence. In my search for happiness and a way to cope with these struggles, I joined the Girls Hockey team as a manager. This decision opened unexpected doors, allowing me to connect with classmates I once found intimidating to approach. These new friendships taught me that setbacks can lead to personal growth. This team became my second family, fostering a supportive and uplifting atmosphere. Each practice and game offered a joyful escape from my challenges, reinforcing the power of community. Their enthusiasm reignited my joy, and for that, I will always be thankful.
However, junior year arrived, and I continued struggling with my biology class, feeling embarrassed to be facing the same subject. It was known to the Hill-Murray faculty, who stepped up and offered me the support I needed during this challenging time. I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to Mrs. Trembley, Mr. Benner, Mr. Bill Beaudette, Mr. Schwartz, Ms. Vink, and other Hill-Murray faculty, whose encouragement helped me navigate challenging moments. I also couldn’t have made it without my wonderful friends, Mairim and Kensie, and the class of 2025, who stood by me and inspired me to push beyond my limits.
Coach N’diaye says it best: in those tough moments on or off the field, it’s not about how many times we fall but how we rise; that’s what it means to be a PIONEER. His words instilled in me the understanding that every challenge or mistake is an opportunity for growth. Everyone’s unwavering support motivated me to embrace my challenges and strive for my best.
Now comes the most memorable and exciting year: SENIOR YEAR. Who knows what’s to come? Reflecting on these transformative years, I feel immense gratitude as I stand here today. The Hill Murray community and the incredible opportunities I’ve encountered have been vital in shaping my experiences.
Initially, I resented my parents’ decision to transfer me to a private school, but each year has shaped me unexpectedly, teaching me valuable lessons and encountering God in profound ways in my struggles. In moments of doubt— from academic setbacks, personal loss, or navigating complex friendships—I found solace in prayer and reflection. These experiences not only deepened my faith but also revealed that I was never truly alone. In those vulnerable moments, I felt God’s presence, offering comfort and strength. My struggles became stepping stones that brought me closer to Him, equipping me with the faith and courage to face whatever lies ahead.
So, looking back, I am not leaving as the same girl who was once worried about fitting in on her first day at Hill-Murray. I am confident in knowing my identity, my faith, and as a PIONEER. To be a PIONEER means passionately pursuing your dreams even if you stumble into one or a few roadblocks. To be a PIONEER is to remain true to yourself. It’s about believing in your potential and navigating your journey with God as your guiding light. A PIONEER treats everyone with respect, no matter who they are. They inspire others to be great leaders. A PIONEER shows compassion – not only for themselves but also for those around them – trusting that every step taken has its purpose. By embracing risks and learning from setbacks, we can inspire one another. Fostering a spirit of resilience and growth grounded in faith, knowing that with God’s support anything is possible.
As we move forward, I encourage you to fully embrace your journey. Don’t shy away from challenges that may lead to the most meaningful growth. Remember to lean on one another. Stay true to yourself. Cherish every friendship and moment. Check up on those around you. Stay open to the opportunities that lie ahead of you. And most importantly, remember you are NEVER alone. I’m Abby Martinez, and it has been a true honor to share this moment with all of you today. Thank you!